We ALL have BAD HABITS! This 42 page EBOOK will address how we can kick them!
There exist bad habits in every quarter of life, bad habits in relationships are annoying and lead
to distorted relationships. Even if a person is truly interested in making a relationship work, such
bad habits curb the progress. The bad habits in relationships are many.
Jealousy is one thing that murders every other relationship. A girlfriend might be suspected by
her boyfriend, that she goes around with men, whom she really doesn't need to. And other one
is when a woman keeps imagining that her husband is looking for some other woman to fill her
place. This is just a bad habit that can be overcome. It is something virtual.
Another bad habit is not listening to a person when he/she is talking. People need to respond
when one is trying to explain something to them, this is called selective hearing. Though people
respond with a YES for the things told by us, they are not really listening.
Another thing is when a person tries to converse with another person about something they both
like, the second person takes complete control of the conversation and this might actually prove
disastrous even for a friendly relationship.
The long running relationships manage to culminate a couple of bad habits among people.
When one person is too dependent on their partner, they end up losing the ability to look after
themselves. This can actually affect them at work. This cripples their efficiency, because they
know someone to actually back them. This is a really bad habit that will have its effects later.
Yelling at your partner for differences in opinion is also a bad habit that crops up in healthy
relationships. All couples argue over an issue at some point of time. But creating a fuss over the
issue will kill the relationship.
Bringing up old issues while arguing with your partner is something that is not suggested, this
will leave a bad taste in both their mouths. The differences in opinion must be resolved by
sensible arguments and must not be carried on from time to time with constant disagreements.
Nagging is something that can irritate anyone, whether it be for a girl or a guy, it sure turns
people off if their partner is going to constantly nag him/her for doing something. This is
something that is majorly seen as a girl thing. This leads to bad relationships.
Blaming your partner is like blaming yourself. So, you will have an effect on anything that they
do. Generally, it is one person who blames all the time, and the other person takes it all. This
takes the relationship to a path downhill.
When people blame at their partners constantly, it leads to a situation where the distance
between the two gets increased more than what they imagine. They will lose trust on other
people also.
The quicker people manage to get out of such bad habits, the better it is, for their relationship.
Everyone expects their partners to be understanding and caring. If any of these bad habits rule
a person's mind, it is going to be hard to keep the relationship going.
