I always thought a wedding was a wedding - now there is ETIQUETTE TOO! Evidently - 93 pages of ETIQUETTE in this EBOOK, and it's for BOTH Guys and Gals alike. This EBOOK will be fun - because it tells you how NOT to make a fool out of the BEST DAY YOU WILL HAVE IN A LONG TIME! At least until the children come along - they will have their own day in your life too! Why Wedding Etiquette Is Essential It’s your wedding, do it your way and forget about the rest, right? If you plan to make a few people unhappy and quite a few more wondering where your manners are, then that is the way to go. Although we do not want to think or talk about it, wedding etiquette is essential. At this very important time in your life, you want everyone to know who you are and what kind of life you are planning to live. The way that you present yourself here is the way they will see you as a couple. Even if you do not care much about what they do and think, it is still essential for you to find a way to make them feel welcome into your life. Not To Worry, It’s Not Hard! The hardest part of wedding etiquette is learning about it. That you will do here. The easy part is doing it. There are very few things that are too hard to accommodate. Besides, a wedding is all about pomp and circumstance, so why not lay it all out there? Wedding etiquette may seem like a difficult process but once you learn a few facts about it and how to easily execute it, you will be well on your way to pleasing your guests, your parents and even find yourself enjoying it all! Worries Relieved Another benefit of following the right etiquette for your wedding is that you can avoid problems like these: • You forgot to invite someone to your wedding and now, they are upset with you! • You do not know how to properly announce your wedding. Should you put it in the newspaper or send an announcement in the mail? • Who should you invite to your wedding shower? • Is it okay to do a gift registry for your wedding? If so, should you put expensive items on it? Does it imply that you want gifts? • What should you do about guests that are out of town? Is it up to you to provide for them? • Who’s going to pay for what? Should your bridesmaids pay for their dresses? Should you fork over the money for gifts? • Who should throw your bridal shower? • Is email an acceptable form of thank you notes for your gifts? There are plenty of things that are big ‘ifs’ and since most of us only get married one time, it is rather difficult to actually determine what the right way to go is. Who's Doing What? The first thing that needs to be figured out is who will be handling what aspects of your wedding day. This is often a difficult situation because people will go one of two ways. • They may want to do anything and everything for you. They may want to pay for everything, spoil you rotten and make sure that everything is perfect for you. They often want a controlling hand in the wedding planning to go along with this, though. • They may instead want to play a minimal role in your wedding, making sure that you pay for and lead the way in your wedding decisions. Of course, you are looking for the happy medium here. To make sure that this happens, the first thing that you need to do is to get together those that will play a large role in your wedding celebration and planning including those that do want to play a role and those that are close family. This would include: • Parents, step parents, and grandparents. • Siblings. • Godparents or mentors within the family or friend structure. • Close friends. • The wedding party. When everyone can come together, they can make decisions as a whole or at least find out what role they will play in this very important day for you and for them. Now, who’s doing what? The Wedding Etiquette Breakdown Of Who’s Who Here’s a breakdown of some of the most important players and what they are traditionally supposed to do on your wedding day. Mother Of The Bride #1 goal is to make sure that the bride’s wishes are carried out the way that she wants them to be. The mother of the bride is there to help her to make sure that what she wants and what she needs happens. It is very important that the mother of the bride allows for the bride’s tastes, desires and needs to be provided for. This does not mean that they can dictate what happens, but rather should insure that what does is what the bride wants. As one of the largest role players, here are her responsibilities: • The Wedding Attire. The mother of the bride should help to find the perfect dress for the wedding, including undergarments and accessories. Not your tastes, but hers should come through. • Guest Lists. The mother of the bride should help to organize guest lists, coordinating with the mother of the groom. If the mother of the groom does not contact her, she should make the first attempt.

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