If you don't have a sense of humor, GET ONE before you continue
reading this book.
We know you're anxious to dive into "the good stuff," but there are
probably a few things we should go over first. This will only take a
minute:
1. More than any earth-shattering physical technique, the most
important thing you can give your partner in the bedroom is respect.
Nothing does more to create a sense of trust, security and, ultimately, an
environment where they feel comfortable enough to try new things. If
there's something in this book that you want to try, but your partner
doesn't, respect their wishes. Guilt trips will get you nowhere. Also,
when your partner feels they've been treated with respect, they're much
more likely to honor your request sometime in the future. Be patient and
everybody wins.
2. These techniques are meant to serve as guides. Use your
imagination to come up with your own variations. There is no "right" or
"wrong" way to do anything when it comes to matters of personal
preference.
3. Always remember to show your partner you love them outside the
bedroom. While sex is best with someone you love, it should never
become the only time you express it. Showing love for your partner in
non-sexual ways takes a great deal of the pressure off your intimate
encounters and allows you both to relax, let down your guard and have
FUN.
And that's exactly what this book is all about!
