At this point, you have a pretty great profile happening for you. That’s the foundation of your online dating adventure hands down. Now, we need to take a minute to talk about what others are looking for in online dating partners across the board.
No matter who you are, you are looking for someone that is just like you. In other words, people are looking for normal people. There is no one out there that is looking to hook up with someone that is too complex, too busy, too overwhelming, or someone that is too above them.
Sure, every guy says they want that hot model with all of the best figures, but the bottom line is that they are really looking for someone that is more normal that happens to be pretty. How can this be? Doesn’t everyone think about looks first in this world?
In reality, people are looking more for those that are normal and just like them because they do not want to feel or end up being rejected. We all fear rejection and at the level of online dating, it is the same.
Think about all the times that you have gone out to the bar or other areas and thought, “She’s pretty, I would never have a chance with her.†Or other such comments. For that reason, girls and guys out there should keep in mind that their profile and their pictures in the profile should be, beyond everything else normal.
Don’t try to make yourself look like a supermodel because you end up looking fake. Don’t try to increase your importance by saying that you have a different job than you do. Don’t say you have special characteristics when you really do not. People are looking for other normal people.
